Most queer people I've talked to since the election answer that question with "Canada." I, however, am feeling energized. Don't get me wrong, I'm also devastated by Bush's election ("the first time is always the sweetest") and our loss on Proposal 2 here in Michigan and the other 10 states that chose to discriminate against unmarried couples. I'm as scared as anybody about what the next few years could bring if the Right decides to see just how far they can push back liberty, democracy, peace and justice. I'm not happy about it, but, at the same time, I'm optimistic about the future.
Millions of Americans continue to be highly motivated by this election, millions of Americans who can help fund progressive think-tanks, voter identification and citizen education, millions of Americans who can force the Democrats to represent true moral values: lifting each other up by fighting poverty and injustice; restoring our environment through protectionism and by changing design, production and energy standards; achieving energy independence; passing a national living wage; and working for peace in our minds, our country and our world. Among others, standing for these truly moral (as opposed to moralistic) values will guide us toward political success, not to mention a better country.
But the question remains for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender women and men of all ages, "Where do WE go from here?" Our families were placed at the center of the Religious Right's "get out the vote" campaign, and pundits across the world are all but blaming us for losing the election. Will a new version of "Queer Eye" really do anything to advance LGBT rights and recognition? What should we be doing? How should we spend our time and money for the next three years?
It's not enough to just join HRC, even though it's important to send money to pay for political action. National, state-wide and sometimes local organizations are already on the ground doing political work--advocating, lobbying, training activists, identifying voters supportive of LGBT issues, and backing LGBT-affirming candidates--and we need to make sure they are fully funded and staffed. We need to back the creation of new political organizations where necessary.
There are also organizations that have years of experience doing the deep social change work our country needs. My partner's Faith Action Network, for example, identifies, organizes, trains and mobilizes progressive people of faith to stand up for LGBT rights and recognition, teaches nonviolent dialogue workshops so people on opposite sides of a controversial issue can have a meaningful, relationship-building discussion, and hosts the national conference for spiritual LGBT activists, "Together in Faith." Southerners on New Ground works in twelve states in the Southeast to dismantle racism, homophobia and economic disparity through education and strategic, multi-issue organizing. We have to give money to and volunteer for such organizations--they must be fully funded and staffed.
In the end, though, it comes down to us as LGBT individuals. What can we do in the next few years to change the direction of our country? Besides getting politically involved, besides supporting LGBT and progressive organizations, what can we do?
There is work for us, too. Although it seems much easier and more attractive to pay someone at an organization to stand up for us, there is important work for each of us:
We all have to come out;
We have to move from a concept of Pride to a concept of Integrity;
We have to study and understand the connections of oppressions so that we can pull them all up by the root;
We have to use methods of activism that are constructive; some people call this nonviolence, in Shirt of Flame I call it "Collective Cultivation."
We all have to come out because it's what's best for us and for the country. Living honestly is living well, and all of our friends and co-workers and church members will be changed by our honesty. Studies show that people who know LGBT people are far more likely to support their equal rights.
We have to move from a concept of Pride to a concept of Integrity because we all know what Pride goeth before. Pride, at least queer pride, is a rebellious exercise. These are not the days for "We're here, we're queer, get used to it!" Celebrating our personal Integrity is a more mature interaction with straight society. We don't need to be 'proud' of whom and how we love; we need to be secure in our identities, and to live so that our true selves and true goals are manifested.
We have to study and understand the connections of oppressions so that we can pull them all up by the root. There are linkages between the oppression of queers and the oppressions of women, racial and ethnic minorities, and the poor. If we want to end any of them, we have to address the root mental models, we have to destroy the ideas behind oppressions. We have to shine a bright light on all oppressors. We have to stand with our oppressed sisters and brothers.
We have to use methods of activism that are constructive, that do nothing to hinder our progress. As I argue in Shirt of Flame, some kinds of activism LGBT people have used actually hurt our cause. The goal for our individual activism has to be changing hearts and minds, not raising hell. You don't scream at a door to get it to open any more than you open hearts and minds by yelling. Like doors, they're opened by oiling the hinges, finding the handle and learning to turn it. Like doors, there are many different sizes, colors, shapes and materials. If we want change, we have to become change, and that means engaging in "Collective Cultivation" on a massive scale.
Most importantly, we have to stay awake, and not let go of the idea that a better future is possible if we start working for it today. It's not too late. Are you with me?
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